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Interview for ''Serve the ladies''
Please tell us your name
Domina V
What is your location Country, state/province and city?
I am originally from Sydney Australia and I have worked internationally before finally settling in London UK in 2008
Do you own slaves in your personal life? If so where did you meet and what duties do they fulfil?
Yes I do, I have two (2) Cross dressing maids who come to my premises to perform cleaning duties and to assist me during sessions. I have 3 personal loyal slaves who I use for forced bi sessions as well as attend fetish parties with me. They also drive me around. I hate London transport as I’m always carrying heavy bags with me. I have known two of them for a while; they started as my clients first. The other slave is new and still on trial. I am also currently searching for a female slave.
Do you have an area of expertise? If yes tell us a bit about it............
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Domina V
What is your location Country, state/province and city?
I am originally from Sydney Australia and I have worked internationally before finally settling in London UK in 2008
Do you own slaves in your personal life? If so where did you meet and what duties do they fulfil?
Yes I do, I have two (2) Cross dressing maids who come to my premises to perform cleaning duties and to assist me during sessions. I have 3 personal loyal slaves who I use for forced bi sessions as well as attend fetish parties with me. They also drive me around. I hate London transport as I’m always carrying heavy bags with me. I have known two of them for a while; they started as my clients first. The other slave is new and still on trial. I am also currently searching for a female slave.
Do you have an area of expertise? If yes tell us a bit about it............
Click HERE to read the the whole interview
Tough Love: the lives and times of a Dominatrix 13 Dec 2009
The photographer Kate Peters spent a year shooting dominatrices, or 'doms’, in Britain and was astonished at the contrast between the 'normal’ women she met and their leather-corseted personae. 'I remember one session in an ordinary east London terraced house. I was chatting to the dom over tea, when the doorbell rang. I opened it to an electrician in his twenties in overalls, holding a bottle of wine. His mistress started verbally abusing him. Minutes later he was lying fully clothed over her knee, being spanked.’
A traditional dominatrix does not have sex with clients, but instead enables their fantasies – no matter how bizarre. 'They’re England’s dirty secret, but they’re everywhere,’ Peters says. She estimates that about 70 per cent of the women consider their work as not just a well-paid job, but a labor of love. 'They get as many kicks from it as their clients do.’
My mother knows what I do. I’m the black sheep of the family, so I don’t think she’s too shocked – she expects it and I’d rather be honest with her. But my father probably doesn’t know. To him I’m still daddy’s little girl. I won’t do everything clients ask; it has to be something I enjoy. I refuse to do adult babies (when men want their nappies changed and suck dummies) . I don’t like severe sessions either, where someone is begging you to stop but doesn’t actually want you to, or leaving marks on bodies. If there are marks on your bottom after a caning you’ll have some explaining to do when you get home.
Before a session you need to find out if the client has health problems and agree on a 'safe’ word. If a client has been tied up for a certain length of time you have to check that they’re OK. You don’t want them passing out on you. This isn’t about providing our bodies for sex; it’s about role-playing and providing humiliation. You’re fulfilling a fantasy that someone has never been able to fulfill in their marriage or with their girlfriends. One client whose marriage ended badly, with his ex blackmailing him and calling him names, now likes us to re-enact those scenarios. I guess he misses something from that time and wants to replay it. Often I feel like a psychologist without a diploma, delving into people’s minds.'
A traditional dominatrix does not have sex with clients, but instead enables their fantasies – no matter how bizarre. 'They’re England’s dirty secret, but they’re everywhere,’ Peters says. She estimates that about 70 per cent of the women consider their work as not just a well-paid job, but a labor of love. 'They get as many kicks from it as their clients do.’
My mother knows what I do. I’m the black sheep of the family, so I don’t think she’s too shocked – she expects it and I’d rather be honest with her. But my father probably doesn’t know. To him I’m still daddy’s little girl. I won’t do everything clients ask; it has to be something I enjoy. I refuse to do adult babies (when men want their nappies changed and suck dummies) . I don’t like severe sessions either, where someone is begging you to stop but doesn’t actually want you to, or leaving marks on bodies. If there are marks on your bottom after a caning you’ll have some explaining to do when you get home.
Before a session you need to find out if the client has health problems and agree on a 'safe’ word. If a client has been tied up for a certain length of time you have to check that they’re OK. You don’t want them passing out on you. This isn’t about providing our bodies for sex; it’s about role-playing and providing humiliation. You’re fulfilling a fantasy that someone has never been able to fulfill in their marriage or with their girlfriends. One client whose marriage ended badly, with his ex blackmailing him and calling him names, now likes us to re-enact those scenarios. I guess he misses something from that time and wants to replay it. Often I feel like a psychologist without a diploma, delving into people’s minds.'
